Wednesday, August 01, 2018

A Death of One Thousand Subtractions

Alzheimer's is the cleverest thief, because she not only steals from you, but she steals the very thing you need to remember what's been stolen - Jarod Kintz, This Book Has No Title.

It'll become an epidemic once the baby boomer generation starts getting over 65 years of age. It's the revenge of longevity. 65 to 70% of Dementia is Alzheimer's. It always begins in the hippocampus, thus the loss of short term memory at the beginning of the illness. Short term memory (STM) just gets worse and worse at first, followed by the person's analytical abilities. Frustration can lead to aggression and even violent outbursts, muscle and movement loss progressively follow and the inability to swallow, then you're more or less looking at it really beginning to kill the person.

You can't converse with Alzheimer's sufferers in the way you do with others; the dialogue tends to go round in circles - Kevin Whately.
 
The care givers are also the heroes in this disease, along with the scientists. A death of 1000 subtractions, bit by bit, day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year. A slow death sentence. However, not everyone who lives to an old age gets Alzheimer's. No one is immune to the disease. Yes there is a genetic component, but inheritance is only about 5%, so you're far more likely to be in the 95th percentile.

People think it's just forgetting your keys. Or the words for things. But there are the personality changes. The mood swings. The hostility and even violence. Even from the gentlest person in the world. You lose the person you love. And you are left with the shell... And you are expected to go on loving them even when they are no longer there. You are supposed to be loyal. It's not that other people expect it. It's that you expect it of yourself. And you long for it to be over soon - Alice LaPlante, Turn of Mind.