Talk to your friends, Talk to wrong numbers, everyone!

The secret to small talk is putting yourself out there, being open, genuine, and vulnerable in your desire to connect with others. This is more important than managing every interaction perfectly.               

                "Well, if this means opening your door to those in need,

                those in pain,

                caring for them, listening to them,

                if this is practicing medicine, if this is treating a patient...

                then I am guilty as charged.

                Transference is inevitable...

                Every human being has an impact on another.

                Why don't we want that in a patient/doctor relationship?

                A doctor's mission should be not just to prevent death...

                but also to improve the quality of life.

                That's why you treat a disease, you win, you lose.

                You treat a person, I guarantee you, you win, no matter what the outcome.

                Don't let them anesthetize you. Don't let them numb you out to the miracle of life.

                Always live in awe of the glorious mechanism of the human body.

                Let that be the focus of your studies and not a quest for grades...

                which'll give you no idea what kind of doctor you will become.

                Don't wait till you're on the ward to get your humanity back.

                Start your interviewing skills. Start talking to strangers.

                Talk to your friends, Talk to wrong numbers, everyone."

~ Robin Williams, Patch Adams (1998)

We all have some kind of scar

The thing about an emotional injury is this sense of unfairness.
It's like a car crash, where everyone was in the car
but you're the only one who went through the windscreen.


"If you can sit with your pain, listen to your pain and respect your pain 
- in time you will move through your pain." ~ Bryant McGill

Political jokes...get elected.

Money and corruption are ruining the land, crooked politicians betray the working man, pocketing the profits and treating us like sheep, and we're tired of hearing promises that we know they'll never keep ~ Ray Davies

The Rest will Follow

Sometimes you don’t realize
the weight of something you've
been carrying until you feel
the weight of its release

A Death of One Thousand Subtractions

Alzheimer's is the cleverest thief, because she not only steals from you, but she steals the very thing you need to remember what's been stolen - Jarod Kintz, This Book Has No Title.

It'll become an epidemic once the baby boomer generation starts getting over 65 years of age. It's the revenge of longevity. 65 to 70% of Dementia is Alzheimer's. It always begins in the hippocampus, thus the loss of short term memory at the beginning of the illness. Short term memory (STM) just gets worse and worse at first, followed by the person's analytical abilities. Frustration can lead to aggression and even violent outbursts, muscle and movement loss progressively follow and the inability to swallow, then you're more or less looking at it really beginning to kill the person.

You can't converse with Alzheimer's sufferers in the way you do with others; the dialogue tends to go round in circles - Kevin Whately.
 

The care givers are also the heroes in this disease, along with the scientists. A death of 1000 subtractions, bit by bit, day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year. A slow death sentence. However, not everyone who lives to an old age gets Alzheimer's. No one is immune to the disease. Yes there is a genetic component, but inheritance is only about 5%, so you're far more likely to be in the 95th percentile.

People think it's just forgetting your keys. Or the words for things. But there are the personality changes. The mood swings. The hostility and even violence. Even from the gentlest person in the world. You lose the person you love. And you are left with the shell... And you are expected to go on loving them even when they are no longer there. You are supposed to be loyal. It's not that other people expect it. It's that you expect it of yourself. And you long for it to be over soon - Alice LaPlante, Turn of Mind.